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Six Boner-Fide Ways Of Knowing If He'll Be Good In Bed

Let me set the scene. 

You've been on two dates with Mr Perfect, and the third is pencilled in for Friday.

First date, you sussed out his level or normalcy and so far, so good.

Second date confirmed the first wasn't a fluke; you two get on like a house on fire and holy moly there's SO much sexual tension.

Third date's the kicker. Is all that flirting going to transfer to the bedroom? There's a LOT riding (lol) on this one.

Well what if we could tell you that there are ~scientific~ ways of knowing if a guy can walk the walk during your very first conversation? A surefire way of knowing, with just one glance, if you're in for a hot and steamy romp?

Yeah, that'd be great. Unfortunately no such thing exists.

BUT there are six things to look out for that could indicate Mr Perfect knows what he's doing. 

And no, his bulge isn't one of them.

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1. HOCUS FOCUS

According to The Sun's Dr Pam Spurr, if a guy can focus on you when you're chatting - be it face-to-face or over the phone - it's a pretty good sign that he'll be focussed on you later on. In the bedroom. When you're having sex. 

Picking up what we're putting down?

2. THE EYES HAVE IT

OK, if bae's eyes are sliding off you and onto other girls, it's probably not indicative of a decent relationship never mind a decent romp. But if he doesn't get distracted by other women it probably means he's hot-as for you and you're gonna get the good loving tonight.

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3. PRESENT TENSE

You know when your primary school teacher used to tell you to sit up straight and quit slouching? Well now you want Lover Boy to be doing the same. Kind of. A relaxed, confident posture points to a relaxed, confident approach to bedroom antics. Too stressed and rigid means he may not, um, be that rigid later on.

4. SEXUAL IN-YOUR-ENDO

There's a trick to sexy flirting, isn't there? You need that playful, kind of innocent thing going, along with a couple of well-timed innuendos riiiight as you lock eyes. You don't need constant sex talk. Constant sex talk means he's got a three-drink limit before he starts suggesting you both head back to his place. Wait for the playful flirting.

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5. NEXT LEVEL LISTENING

There's this thing called "second level listening" that actually makes a lot of sense, regardless of whether you're applying it to find a beau or a bestie. When someone reflects back what you say, to check they've understood, it's a huge indicator that they're interested in the conversation and care about your opinion. And if you transfer that quality to the bedroom? Someone wants to make sure they want to know what's good for you.

6. HANDY AS

Keep an eye on his handy work. According to Dr Pam, a man who can knock together a shelving unit, rebuild a motherboard or play an instrument knows how to use their hands. Dexterity, dexterity, dexterity. 

At the end of the day, though, there really is only one definitive way of knowing if the sex is going to be good.

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