David Byrne has had a lot of time to reflect after essentially walking out on his Talking Heads bandmates in 1991, and this week the eccentric frontman opened up about how he handled it.

“As a younger person, I was not as pleasant to be around. When I was working on some Talking Heads shows, I was more of a little tyrant,” he admitted to People.

“And then I learned to relax, and I also learned that collaborating with people, both sides get more if there’s a good relationship instead of me telling everybody what to do.”

“I think [the end] wasn’t handled well. It was kind of ugly,” Byrne added.

David Byrne, Tina Weymouth, Chris Frantz, and Jerry Harrison of Talking Heads in 1977.

In the three decades that have passed, the bandmates have gotten back in touch, but Byrne thinks their break-up was inevitable.

“I have regrets on how that was handled. I don’t think I did it in the best way, but I think it was kind of inevitable that would happen anyway,” he said. “We have a cordial relationship now. We’re sort of in touch, but we don’t hang out together.”

David Byrne in 1983

That being said, Talking Heads are reuniting for the first time in more than 20 years for a Q&A at the Toronto International Film Fest on September 11 to celebrate the 40th anniversary of their iconic concert film, Stop Making Sense.